Tiffany S. McLallen, Directors

A Compassionate Advocate for Children and Families in High-Conflict Custody Situations

Tiffany S. McLallen, Directors

A Compassionate Advocate for Children and Families in High-Conflict Custody Situations

Tiffany S. McLallen, LMHC, CCPT, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Certified Child-Centered Play Therapist with more than 25 years of clinical experience supporting children and families through separation, custody disputes, and high-conflict co-parenting dynamics in Upstate New York. Holding a Master of Science in Mental Health Counseling from the State University of Oswego and credentials as a Certified Child-Centered Play Therapist through the National Institute of Relationship Enhancement in Bethesda, Maryland, Tiffany brings deep expertise in trauma-informed practice, forensic treatment, custody and parenting evaluation, Applied Behavior Analysis, attachment theory, personality disorders, and neurodivergence to her work at the Board level.

As a credentialed Parenting Coordinator in New York's 8th Judicial District, Tiffany recognized a critical gap in traditional co-parenting interventions for high-conflict families and devoted herself to developing innovative, child-centered solutions tailored to each family's unique dynamics and needs. Beginning in 2011, when she began receiving increased referrals for specialized co-parenting services, Tiffany pursued extensive additional training and credentials to expand her capacity to serve families where conventional co-parenting approaches proved ineffective or harmful.

Her core clinical philosophy—grounded in the belief that meaningful change emerges when individuals gain insight into their feelings and behavioral patterns—informs her commitment to structuring parenting plans and custody orders designed uniquely for the families she serves.

Drawing on her personal and professional experience working with individuals displaying complex behavioral patterns, Tiffany has become known throughout the Upstate New York region for her creative, innovative solutions that honor both children's developmental needs and parents' capacity for change. Her distinctive blend of evaluation and treatment expertise guides courts toward solutions that are simultaneously child-centered, trauma-informed, and attachment-focused—an integrated approach that reflects her deep understanding of how systemic family court practices either support or undermine healthy child development and family healing. Tiffany's clinical work demonstrates that when parents understand the impact of their patterns of behavior and gain insight into their function, more successful and sustainable solutions emerge naturally.

Driven by professional passion and an unwavering commitment to hope, healing, and systemic change, Tiffany has become a tireless advocate for mental health awareness and community transformation. Whether facilitating workshops, teaching and mentoring new providers, organizing community events, or simply offering a compassionate listening ear to a parent in crisis, Tiffany brings her full presence to every interaction. She reminds families navigating family court trauma that they are never alone, that there is always more than one solution, and that some of the most resilient and beautiful flowers also grow from difficult soil. Her philosophy—that the answers we seek are fundamentally a matter of perspective, and that increased insight into behavioral patterns creates pathways to more successful outcomes—animates her board leadership at National Family Justice and her dedication to building stronger, more compassionate communities where children and families are protected, supported, and valued.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Helping families understand their rights, options, and next steps

1. What does National Family Justice do?

We support families navigating high-conflict custody, family court, and legal system abuse. Our services include education, advocacy, professional training, and support for families facing issues like violations of rights, coercive control, domestic violence, and parental alienation. We also file amicus briefs in landmark cases affecting parental rights.

2. Are you a law firm?

No, we are not a law firm and do not provide legal representation or advice. However, we offer tools, education, document review, and strategic support to empower families and pro se litigants. We can also help you find trauma-informed legal professionals in your area.

3. Can you help me if I don’t have a lawyer?

Yes. We specialize in supporting pro se (self-represented) parents with tools and reasources to help you advocate for yourself in court. We also provide referrals to vetted professionals.

4. Can you help if my case involves domestic violence or coercive control?

Absolutely. We recognize the difference between true “high conflict” and post-separation abuse. We help parents identify patterns of coercive control, gather documentation, and protect their children while advocating for safety in court.

5. What is your stance on shared parenting?

We support 50/50 shared parenting as the default in the absence of abuse, supported by child development research and constitutional equal protection. We also advocate for safe exceptions when domestic violence, abuse, or coercive control is present.

6. What is an amicus brief and how do you use them?

An amicus brief (friend of the court brief) is a legal document we submit to offer expertise or insight in cases with broad impact. We use them to advocate for parental rights, equal custody, and protections for children in courts across the U.S.

7. Do you work with military families?

Yes. We assist military-connected families by ensuring custody orders respect deployment obligations, federal protections like the SCRA and UDPCVA, and parent-child bonding despite service duties.

8. Can you help with problems involving CPS,  a guardian ad litem, or a parenting coordinator?

Yes. We review CPS reports, GAL conduct, parenting coordinator conduct, custody evaluations, and risk assessments for ethical violations. We also provide documentation support and can help elevate concerns when due process is denied.

9. How can I get involved with your organization?

You can support our mission by volunteering, donating, or joining our parent-to-parent mentorship program. We also welcome professionals who want to advocate for reform or provide trauma-informed services.

10. How do I request help or a case review?

Use our contact form or email us directly at [email protected]. Please provide a short summary of your situation and what kind of support you’re seeking. A team member will follow up within 3–5 business days.

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